Dear Trying hard,
My husband and I too had a long talk tonight.........We have just started going to a marriage counsler. we have had 4 sessions. But I still needed to know if he wanted our marriage. I needed to know from his mouth and his actions that he does love me. He said that he is confused about our marriage and if HE wants to work toward saving it. You see ... I moved out of our home together over 8 months ago. I felt our marriage was over. After many months of being alone and able to really think about what I wanted from our life I made the first move to talk to him about all my feelings. Not knowing how to explain that I had felt for over 4 years that we did not have a marriage anymore. I did not feel loved by him. I did not have hope. But he suggested that maybe we get some help. Just by him showing and telling me that our marriage was his #1. in his life it showed me that maybe we can save it. I got on the website tonight because I had just gotten home from a long talk with him and I do think that we will be able to save our marriage and make it better then it ever has been before. As a women I am glad to see that you as a man are willing to put your heart out there and get help. Accept it. Cherrish it.... Want it. But more then all this. SHE NEEDS TO KNOW THAT YOU LOVE HER. She needs to HEAR IT, SEE IT, . Make her feel special. I hope this reply helps you. Remember that you are not alone and that there are people out here in this big bad world that are feeling the same pain. |